This is the time for all things scary but what you always
want to avoid is scary advice that can derail your job opportunities and
career.
Perhaps you’ve received some of the advice below (or maybe
even offered it) but you’ll want to think carefully before you take it to
heart.
Do what you love. This sounds great at first but
should be taken with some caveats. Loving what you do also needs to be able to
provide you with a sustainable income to live. You might love playing video
games or taking pictures of your cat but only a few people make a living with those
ventures. You might also love something you’re not particularly gifted or skilled
at. Sometimes the work we do is difficult and hard to like but you’re able to
use your strengths and skills to make a difference. By all means, if you can do
what you love and make a living, then do so. But that should not be the only,
or primary, factor in deciding your career path.
If the money is good you can learn to love any job.
There are many people who make good money and hate their job and higher rates
of income often relate to higher levels of job dissatisfaction and stress. Don’t
assume that if the money is right, you’ll be able to enjoy your work.
Just take this job until something better comes along.
If you feel hesitant to take a job and there are red flags warning you to stay
away, do just that. If you can be patient, do so. Of course, in some situations
you desperately need to find work but, in general, it’s best to avoid a job
that could bring more headaches and make it more difficult for you to make the move
once you’re in a bad work situation.
To get ahead you need to go back to school. There are
many jobs and career paths that don’t require you to get another degree and there
are alternative educational opportunities and training programs that can
provide you with the skills and information needed to move forward, while you
are gaining important experience working in the field.
You need to stick with a job for a few years. Don’t
be a job-hopper. That may have been true decades ago when people often took a
job out of high school or college and stayed in that job until retirement, but
that’s no longer the case, and it’s acceptable now to move on to new experiences
and higher levels of responsibility in your field.