If you work with human beings, you are going to experience
conflict at some point. And if you work primarily in teams, it is likely you’ll
experience conflict on a regular basis. Conflict doesn’t have to drag you or
your team down, though, if you handle it correctly, and it can lead to work
breakthroughs and the deepening of relationships with your colleagues.
Here are a few ways to manage conflicts among your work
team.
Set clear expectations. Work teams need to be clear about
what behavior is acceptable and the appropriate ways to communicate. This
should be modeled by leaders and supervisors at work, and teams need to have
conversations around expectations for how the team will function and work
together to ensure everyone is on the same page from the start, and a process
is put in place to specify expectations for new individuals who join the team
later.
Define terms. Sometimes arguments and disagreements take
place in a team because common terms related to the work have not been defined
and understood in the same way by others on the team.
Seek to create a shared
vocabulary that will reduce tension and conflict in a group. It can helpful to
write these definitions down and provide access to the team so when conflict arises
this document can be referred to.
Meet face to face. When conflicts arise, it is best to meet
face to face and communicate in person with a specific person or with the team.
It becomes easier to understand nuance and read body language, which can help
come to a resolution. When setting expectations, it can be useful to come to an
agreement on the types of information or communications that will be handled in
person and those that can be managed through email or text.
Seek to understand and practice empathy. A practice to model
and stress for the team is habit five from Stephen R. Covey’s book The 7
Habits of Highly Effective People: “Seek first to understand, then to be
understood.” Implementing this practice will go a long way toward preventing or
resolving conflicts when they arise within your team.
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