You’ve been sending out resumes left and right, applying for
jobs in your sleep, and now you finally got the call and have a job interview set
up. After lining up the interview, you might discover that you have a lot of
emotions, including anxiety. Perhaps you’ve been looking for a job for a while and
have started to feel a little desperate to return to the workforce.
Of course, you know that to perform your best in the
interview you’ll want to manage your emotions.
Here are a few ways to manage your anxiety before the
interview.
Recognize how you feel. Don’t bother denying how you’re feeling
about the interview. Your emotions are not right or wrong. If you’re feeling
anxious, nervous, or worried it’s necessary to acknowledge how you’re feeling
so you can implement some strategies to better manage your anxiety.
Discuss how you feel with a friend. Take some time to share
your feelings with a friend, spouse, or partner. It can help to manage your
feelings simply by acknowledging them to another person. When we hold our
emotions in or try to bury them, they can feel more oppressive and difficult to
handle.
Get some good sleep. Of course, you want to get good sleep
before your interview. Don’t stay up late watching television, perhaps take a
hot shower or bath, and read for awhile to help you relax.
Avoid alcohol. Do not drink the night before your interview.
You might think it will help you relax and fall asleep, but alcohol actually
impairs your ability to fall into a deep sleep. And it should go without saying
that you don’t want to drink in the hours before your interview.
Meditate and self-talk. Take a few minutes to meditate the
day of your interview and develop some phrases for positive self-talk, such as “I
have the skills necessary to do this job well” or “I will perform well in this
interview.”
Breathe. When we’re feeling anxious, we can sometimes
neglect to breathe properly, and this can increase our feelings of anxiety. So,
take some time and breathe deeply, while repeating your positive self-talk
phrases and you’ll do just fine in your interview.
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